GIVE 100% TO A RELATIONSHIP..

A Small Story:--

A boy and girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles and the girl had some sweets with her. The boy told the girl he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed. The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she has promised.
That night, the girl slept peacefully but the boy couldn't sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.

Moral of the story:-
If you don't give your hundred percent in a relationship, you'll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.. This is applicable for any relationships not only love, but friendships and employer-employee relationship etc. Give your 100% to everything you do and sleep peacefully.


一则小故事：-

一个小男孩和小女孩在一起玩耍。男孩有一些收藏着的弹珠而女孩则有一些糖果。男孩就对女孩说他愿意把他所有的弹珠来换取她的糖果，女孩也同意了。可是男孩却偷偷把最大最美的弹珠藏起来后才将其他的弹珠和女孩换取她的糖果。女孩则依照约定把她所有的糖果都给了男孩。当晚女孩睡得很安宁，男孩却辗转难眠, 这是因为他在想：女孩是不是也把最好的糖果藏起来，就如他把最美的弹珠藏起来一样。


这个故事告诉我们：-
如果我们不曾全心全力付出，那我们就会怀疑其他人是不是也像我们一样有所保留。。这不只是适于用在感情上，相对于友情，上司下属的关系也是一样。所以请把你最真诚的心力付出给你身边的每一个人和你在做的每一件事吧！

Where's The Justice ？？ 天理何在 ？？

2009 年 7 月 16 日- 雪洲议员政治秘书赵明福被发现离奇堕楼死于雪洲反贪污委员会总部。原本只是协助贪污案调查和证人之一的赵明福，为何出来的却是一具冷冰冰的尸体？到底他们是怎佯盘问赵明福的？这引起了全国人民和民联议员的关注和愤怒，尤其是当报导指赵明福可能是堕楼自杀时，更是让人共愤。试问一个热心于社会的优秀青年，即将和未婚妻共结连理的准爸爸，还是一个孝顺家庭父母的好孩子怎么可能说死就死？而且到目前案发后的十余天为止，反贪污委员会也没对人民和赵明福家属给于令人满意的交代。我们还有机会能知道真相吗？
自认对马来西亚政治完全不闻不问的我，也对今天所发生的事情感到悲哀，这可是对国家，对大马华人莫大的羞辱啊。难道他们真的可以如此目无法纪的为所欲为，难道天理已经让人性给埋没了吗？对于赵明福的家属和未婚妻，无不闻者辛酸，无不见者流泪，原本开开心心迎接即将来临的新生命，原本他准备辞职和未婚妻回老家共组幸福小家庭的美梦已经不能实现。有谁能体会她要如何继续未来的人生，带着赵家的骨肉走下去？可是在她眼中我们看见了勇敢和坚持，虽然明知未来的路很坎坷，但她还是坚定地宣布会把孩子生下，这也许就是爱的牺牲和力量吧！这令我真得很动容。原本告诉妈妈他会当天回家探望父母的，回来的却是在赵明福小妹和未婚妻陪同的灵车和再也不能开口说话的他。试问天底下有哪对父母能够接受这个事实？

最新消息，请游缆：-

http://justiceforbenghock.blogspot.com/

http://mt.m2day.org/2008/content/view/24939/84/



16 July 2009 - Teoh Beng Hock was invited by the Selangor MACC (Malaysian Anti-Corruption Commission) to assist in their investigation into constituency allocations. He went to the MACC Headquarters at around 5.40pm on 15th July 2009 but never came back. His body was found on the 5th floor of Wisma Masalam at 1pm on 16th July, less than 20 hours later. The MACC office is located on the 14th floor of the same building. Teoh Beng Hock was previously worked as a reporter for Sin Chew Daily and joined the office of Selangor Exco, Ean Yong Hian Wah after the 2008 General Election as the latter's political secretary. He was a helpful and diligent young man, liked by all who worked with him and cherished by those who are his good friends. The death of Teoh Beng Hock is shrouded in mystery and a slew of unanswered questions. It involved a power law enforcement agency in the country – MACC - that was supposed to protect the interests of the people and the country. There have been many police custodial deaths but this is the first case of death in the custody of the MACC. Are we able to know the truth?

For More Information:-

http://justiceforbenghock.blogspot.com/

http://mt.m2day.org/2008/content/view/24939/84/



明福未婚妻祭文：- 明福，你没有任何的交待就匆匆离开了我。你说，我们还有很多事没有完成，有很多地方还没有去，你还说这一辈子的路都会陪我一起走下去。现在的我该怎么办？怎样才能再见到你？我的脑海里一直都想着你，念着你……我只要你回来，回到我的身边……这几天我一直等你，但是却让我失望了。我只想知道你现在过得好不好，痛不痛……？请你别让我等那么久好吗？就让我再见你一次，一次就好。当哭泣以及呼唤都无法叫醒你的时候，我已经不能不相信你已经永远的离开了我。再多的不舍，今天还是得与你告别了，我答应你，我会好好的活下去。但是，你一定要在我身边陪伴我，陪我一起照顾他。明福，虽然今世我与你的缘分已尽了。但是，我希望，如果有下一辈子的话，我很想与你再续我们今生的缘分。你安心上路吧，愿你安息。

Fiancee's Tribute to Beng Hock:-

Beng Hock, you left me without saying any last words. You said we still have a lot of things to accomplish together, that we have not been to many places before. You said you will always walk this life together with me. What should I do now? How can I see you again? I miss you, I have been thinking about you! I just want you to come back, come back to my side...For the past few days I have been waiting for you, but you did not appear. I just want to know how are you now, are you in pain? Please do not let me wait for too long... I just want to see you just once... just once is good enough! When all the crying cannot wake you up, I still cannot believe you have to leave me forever. No matter how much I do, we still have to say goodbye today. I promise you, I will live my life well. But you must stay by my side, you must be with me to bring up our child. Beng Hock, although our destiny this life has ended, I hope that in the next life, we will continue our life together as husband and wife. Please go in peace, I pray that you will find rest.

我的潜水录 II - Refreshment Dives

海鲜晚餐 （团体照） 登嘉楼唐人街


2008年四月 - 因为工作的关系，从考到潜水执照的这一年里我根本没办法参与任何一个潜水活动，直到我的潜水伙伴们通知我说他们已经参加了五月的热浪岛潜水时，已经太迟了因为每一个活动都有限制参加人数。虽然我好想去（很难得能碰到我们4个能一起潜水 - 我，Toon, Henzing 和在上海工作的Willoon）但也只好和另一个朋友Adelena报名四月的热浪岛潜水。

April 2008 - Ever since i got the Open Water Diver license, this is the first trip i can participate besides the practical test in Perhentian Island which was like a year ago. It was too late when my buddies informed me about their participation in May Redang trip as it's already fulled though i really wish to go (hardly 4 of us can go diving together - me, Toon, Henzing and Willoon that based in ShangHai). I therefore joined the April trip with a friend Adelena, we knew each other during open water.

Pool side view in the morning

Sutra Beach Resort - Kuala Terengganu

整个团里， 除了我，Adelena 和教练， 其他的都是外籍潜水员。就因为如此我和 Adelena驾了大约八个小时的车程抵达登嘉楼后，幸运的入住比较不错的酒店 Sutra Beach Resort. 如果时间允许的话，我还真的想去享受一下游泳和在泳池边休息聊天。 可惜当我们抵达那里时已经是黄昏，晚餐后就各自回房休息了，因为明天一早还要启程到船头前往热浪岛潜水去。

This is not considered as big group with total of 7 divers (included my dive instructor) and besides 3 of us, the rest are all westerners from different countries. After 8 hours drive from Penang Island early morning, we arrived at Sutra Beach Resort in the evening, went for seafood dinner in Terengganu China Town after resting a while. It was a bit late after get back from dinner so that's why we do not have the chance to enjoy swim in the pool. How i wish to relax by the pool side and having some beers. Well, we gotto rest for early departure next morning to jetty to catch the boat to Redang Islang.

Briefing by Mr. Fong - Our dive instructor 要下水啦,好紧张 - gearing up

Preparing to enter ...................................... Gather at the surface before descending

前往热浪岛途中，我们将在Baby West Rock的潜点做第一个check out dive. 刚下水的十五分钟我还是在忙着调整浮力， 毕竟已经一年没潜水了， 还好并不是很难掌握。 这一个潜点底下大部分是沙床，主要也是方便当我们不平衡失去控制时不会撞向或踩到珊瑚。当我们准备好后便继续往前游，终于开始体会到一点享受潜水的快感，比起之前考试时当然有所不同。没了压力自然就轻松些，开心些，看到的海底生物也格外美丽。

On our way to Redang Island, we did our check out dive at Baby West Rock. For the first 15mins i was busy adjusting my buoyancy control and luckily it's sands bed at the bottom so that we won't be banging or stepping on live corals when we're out of control. It's been a year ago since my open water test, and I'm glad it did'nt take me too long to settle down. As we swam forward, i'm getting more and more enjoying diving in the sea, looking for marine lifes that i ever seen before, it was so much different compared to the previous trip.

Jelly fish ........................ Old couple and Adelena on top deflating air from BC

It's me!!!!! ...............................................soft corals

这个潜大约用了三十六分钟，随后便在热浪岛吃午餐。我们入住的度假屋可说是我有史以来住过最残旧的度假屋之一，设备也普普通通，只有冷气睡房和小餐厅，不过还好有热水器可以冲凉。接下来我们便出发到Terumbu Kili 和 Pulau Pinang Wreck 潜点继续潜水。这也是我第一次经历到海底水流，虽然并不是很强烈但也足以让我们游得上气不接下气，我终于明白是时候该换一对好的脚蹼了。

This dive last about 36 minutes, then we approached to Redang Island for lunch break and check in to Mutiara Beach resort which is a lousiest resort i ever stayed in. The facilities are just air-conditioning room, hot shower and a cafeteria. After lunch, we went to Terumbu Kili and Pulau Pinang Wreck for diving. This is also the first time i encountered slow current that was exhausting enough for us to fight through it. I finally realised it's time to change an expensive and good fin - Bio Fin.

Giant Puffer .....................................School of Fish

Schhool of Fish .............................Me and Adelena on the surface

Snap shot from the boat - table corals......................... New Jetty Link to Private Beach

Me and Adelena (Check out the resort behind us) ............Me and Adelena evening shot at the jetty

接下来的两天，我们分别在Pulau Ling, Bidong Wreck, Downtown, 和 Batu Cupak 潜水。 我们也见到了小魔鬼鱼，海龟， 鳗鱼， 和小鲨鱼。由于其中一个潜水时我不小心弄伤了耳膜，所以没办法做最后一个潜，只好留在船上等队员回来。最令人气愤的是他们遇见了罕见的 Hammer head Parrot Fish，气死我了。晚上我们的晚餐是自助烧烤，玩得还蛮尽兴的。

We were doing diving at Pulau Ling, Bidong Wreck, Downtown, and Batu Cupak for the next 2 days. During the dives, we saw few different marine lifes such as stingrays, moray eels, black tip baby shark, turtle, school barracudas and many more as pictures shown below. Due to the inproper equilization, i have to missed one of the dives and resting on the boat while waiting for the rest to come back from diving. The sad part is the group saw Hammer head parrot fish during the dive that i missed and this is rare to sight in East Coast dive sites. We were having BBQ dinner at night and generally it was quiet happy.

Types of Corals ...................................... Spagetti Worm

Rocks & Hard Corals ...................................Giant Clam

Soft Corals..........................................Hammer Head Parrot Fish

Christmas Tree Worm ....................................................Soft Corals

BBQ Dinner ............................... Light & Easy Night

It's Started 我的潜水录 I －Open Water

我和我的潜水好友Ｔｏｏｎ。My very best dive buddy Toon.

２００６年９月，我们决定尝试不一样的挑战。刚开始练习潜水时可以说是困难重重，除了要上潜水课以外最令我害怕的是要在１５尺深的游泳池实习以潜水装备跳水。这是因为我本身除了有惟高以外，对于比较深的水池也不太有安全感，更何况穿起了那身蛮重的潜水装备简直就是行动非常不便。虽然如此，我还是咬紧牙关服从教练的命令尽量把因该学习的部分练习及做好（当然少不了挨骂）。可是种种挫折并没有让我放弃，相反的我非常珍惜每一次的操练，那是因为我明白如果我没认真学习的话可能日后会导致不必要的危险，因为潜水是在几十尺，甚至几百尺的深海活动，危险性是高得不可忽略的。而且我也不希望到时在深海考取潜水执照时会落空，潜水不仅是具有极高挑战性的运动且消费也并不便宜。

September 2006, we decided to challenge something new in life. In the beginning of scuba diving course it's really full of obstacles to me. Besides the theory class, the challenging part is the practical training at 15 feet deep swimming pool. Myself have pretty much phobia to deeper water and as well as height cause it's quiet hard to make further steps with scuba equipment, thus I'm hesitate to step into the water during practicing "entering" the water in the beginning. However,i treasured each and every training sessions so that is why i have to grit my teeth and persevere till the trainings end. I knew it very well that scuba diving is an activity that involved high risk which might endanger a diver's life if the knowledge and skills required are not fully take into precaution. Scuba diving is also an activity that carry out under deep sea, thus i feel that a responsible diver should take it seriously towards self and buddy's safety apart from enjoying the dives. Furthermore, i don't allow myself to fail during the open water test, is an expensive hobby indeed.

２００７年３月３０日，终于出发到大马东海岸丁加奴准备隔天到Ｐｕｌａｕ　Ｐｅｒｈｅｎｔｉａｎ考取潜水执照。当时的心情七上八下的好紧张，心理负担还蛮重的。丰富的海鲜晚餐并没能舒暖我所承受的压力，唯有早些休息尽量不去想太多的无谓。
30th March 09, Finally departing to east coast Malaysia Terengganu state for our open water test, it was about 7 hours drive from Penang to the destination and we stayed a night at the mainland preparing for departing to Perhentian Island next day morning. We were pretty excited, curios and worried about the activities that we going to do tomorrow. This was the very first experience for few of us in the group of taking the Scuba School Internationl diving open water license. Without thinking too much unnecessary, i went to sleep a while after the seafood dinner.



２００７年３月３１日， 清晨吃完早点 后便开始迁移我们的装备和行李到船上出发到Perhentian 小岛。我们将会在到达目的地途中在 Rawa Reef 做第一个潜叫做 check out dive。Check Out Dive　通常不会太深也不会太难，那是给潜水员们调整水底浮力和适应。由于我们租用的渔船并不是设计给潜水活动的所以唯一能下水的地方就是它的船头，距离海面大约３－４尺高而正刚好是我最大的弱点，不过我还是不顾一切跳下去。

当每位团员聚在一起以后便开始潜下海底,当时的感觉实在难以言喻,七上八下的不知怎么办而且我们也忙着调理浮力,避免和珊瑚还有队员相撞.可是不管怎么努力我们还是像刚学走路的小孩一样在水中横冲直撞.而我也发生了一些小意外,起初原以为太紧张的关系才导致呼吸有些不顺畅,但当我检查氧气计量器时可真是吓得一大跳，因为计量器的针跳动不寻常而我又不明白是怎么一回事,所以只好赶快游到教练身边让他看我的计量器。原来是我的氧气并没完全开启，真是的，当然又免不了教练的训话因为这是不可犯的错误.


到达Perhentian岛，分配好房间后便是午餐和小休时刻，大约２点钟又继续第２和第３个潜水在 Sail Rocks　和　Sebelia Rocks。大致上也没什么意外只是浮力还不是控制得很好，所以我和好友尽量与其他团员保持一点距离，因为当中也有好几个也是和我们一样没有经验，不是我们去撞他们就是给他们踢到，真狼狈.我们的考试除了要控制浮力以外，还有就是要在水里脱掉潜水镜又穿回后将里面的水清除，拿开呼吸器又带上等等，而我也庆辛自己没再出错。晚餐后的自由活动时间，我只想静静的躺在白细的沙滩上欣赏漂亮的满天星空，聆听海浪涌向沙滩的声音，在人烟稀少的地方寻找一点宁静。
难得能脱离繁忙的工作岗位，当然是要好好的享受这偷来的休闲。耗不了多久就得上床休息因为明早又是一个劳碌天，我们必须很早起床再出海潜水。


31st March 2009, Early morning after breakfast, we started to transfer our stuff to our "dive boat", well it doesn't really considered as a dive boat but more like a fishing boat. On the way to Perhentian Island, we're going to do a check out dive at Rawa reef. Check out dive is normally the first dive, for divers to adjust their buoyancy, getting used in underwater and it's usually not deep (around 60 feet) at dive sites with less challenges.
Again,i found it scary to entering water from the front cause it was like 3-4 feet from the surface but i still managed to do it without hesitation (yeah, i did it!). We went down together once everyone entered the water,i was really nervous during descending to the bottom, we were busy adjusting our buoyancy and the skill. Nevertheless, we were banging each other and the hard corals though we tried not to and avoid it. It's really funny when we recap the moments, other than that i encountered a minor accident whereby my breathing through the regulator is abnormal, at first i thought it might be due to too nervous and panic but when i checked out my air gauge, the needle was moving irregularly that i don't understand what's happening. I therefor swim towards my instructor and showed him my air gauge, he stare at me for a second then he helped me to twist my air opener, alright it's because my air didn't completely open and this is such an unacceptable mistake for a diver during buddy check before go diving.
After the dive, we had lunch in Perhentian Island and rest for a while after settle down our stuff in the room,we went for 2nd and 3rd dives again at Sail Rocks & Sebelia Rocks around 2pm. We getting used to entering water and a bit organized during the dives, me and Toon tried to stay a distance from other divers as not only us that banging other people but others also kicking us sometimes unintentionally. The open water test not only on our self buoyancy control, we need to do mask clearing underwater, remove and put back our regulator and i'm glad i did it ok. At night after dinner, me and my buddy were laying on the crystal clear sands beach watching stars, beers, and chatting while enjoying the silent night with only the melody of the waves pushing sands. It was such a great moment when we stay apart not to thinking of how hectic at work and steal the time just relaxing at the beach. We went to rest after a few beers and preparing for tomorrow dives.



2007年4月1日，清晨早餐后便收拾行李准备出发。我们将在回去陆地途中在Twin Rocks 和 Susu Dara Pinnacles完成最后两个潜水才算合格。虽然我的浮力还不算称得上很好，但至少我已经能够欣赏海底世界的美。 第一次看见镇真正的活珊瑚，第一次接触电影"Finding Nemo"里的小丑鱼,第一次看见鱼儿交配，第一次看见小鲨鱼，第一次体会到原来能随心所欲的在海地遨游是件多么快乐的事。我们考试里的最后一个项目便是我们将会经过海底里的一个小山洞，在穿越过去时必须顺利通过，如果任何一个潜水员的氧气筒不小心被卡住的话那考试便会宣告失败.
还好，我并没让自己失望，当能够成功穿越过去时真的好有满足感，活了那么多年终于感觉到我真的是没有白活了。然后教练便在船上宣布每位考员过关经,过了这一次，我更下定决心要继续追求我的潜水梦想，永不放弃！

1st April 2009, Early morning after breakfast, we packed our luggage and get everything transferred to the boat. While sailing back to the mainland, we will be doing last 2 dives at Twin Rocks and Susu Dara Pinnacles in order to complete total 5 dives to pass the practical test. Although my buoyancy is not considered good, but at least I’m able to start enjoying the scene and beauty of underwater world.
My first time seeing life corals, my first time touching the clown fish as in "Finding Nemo" movie, my first time watching fishes mating underwater, my first time seeing a baby nurse sharkm and first time i realized that how amazing it is to swim underwater freely. The last part to be done in our practical is that every diver will have to pass through a small cave at Susu Dara Pinnacles and if anyone's tank get stuck when passing through, he will considered to fail the test. I'm glad that i made it and didn't disappoint myself in any cause. It was very satisfying when we all can successfully go through and thus when we all get back to the boat after the last dive, our instructor announced that everyone of us has passed in our open water test. Yes! We are a qualified Open Water diver now :). I will never give up in scuba diving and will pursuing my hobby until the end of my life.


我在海地的第一张写照（在成功穿越海底小山洞时照的)- My First Underwater Picture Taken After Swam Across a Underwater Cave, 1st April 2007

















全体照 - Group Photo taken 1st April, 2007