因为陌生,所以勇敢。因为距离,所以美丽


我的处女作。。。认识我的人会很好奇, 什么启发我写Blog?? 而且还是中文版。 他是我高中毕业后就读第一所学院的同学, 读了他的Blog之后, 让我体会到中文是我们的母语, 千万不可以忘记。 也让我明白原来能将我们生活的一点一滴拿出来与认识我们的人分享,尤其如果有朝一日, 我突然失去脑中的记忆,但 至少还有个地方记载我生命中的精彩,其实还不赖。

“陌生”这个词对我来说真的很陌生。。 梦想尤其更是陌生。。 没想过活了二十六年竟然让我踏出勇敢的第一步,迈向我梦寐以求的潜水生涯。 潜水让我克服重重困难,惧高,惧深,惧海。。梦让我学会勇敢, 勇敢的踏出不同的第一步及每一步。 如今的我唯有在那深不见底的海洋, 找到我的灵魂, 找到属于我的梦想; 在那白细的沙滩上, 艳阳光下, 一望无际的碧海蓝天, 找到没有任何烦恼的天堂。Scuba Diving is my soul~ the paradise I can find~ my achievements~ the only dedication in my life~

相信我, 如果你已经克服了你最大的弱点, 那将很难会有什么事情是不能面对, 或者你做不到的, 生命也只不过是如此而已。要记住,别让你的生命里抱着遗憾, 想做就去做。 Live your life with no regrets 。。我的座右铭

勇敢对我来说比死来的简单。我很好奇有些人与其有勇气寻死,却没勇气活下去。要知道有多少在生命边缘挣扎的人,努力呼吸着只为了多活一天。 世间万物的求生毅志怎可以轻易的被挫折打败?上天要我们经过不同的磨练,放才能变得更坚强,变得更能人所不能。 之所以这样我今天还活着,活得好好的,活得比以前更好,而且还要活出灿烂的人生。

距离,让我学会懂得“珍惜”。珍惜生命,珍惜身边的朋友,家人,以及生活中的每一点每一滴。“珍惜”这两个字听起来很简单,但是有多少个人能做得到?过去的爱情让我了解, 男人口中的所谓“珍惜”也只不过是所说说而已。 在面对外界的多种诱惑,难道他真的能珍惜那曾经与他们共同进退,背后默默为他们撑着的人吗?他怎可能记得说过永远的爱我? 守候的结果,换来的却是无情的背叛。 无须苦苦强求,唯有带着破碎的心情离开。以前的那一句话已是我心中的伤口, 过了好久好久没人记得当初的那些温柔, 我和你手牵手说要一起走到最后。如果爱不曾来过,如果梦不曾碎过,如果心不曾疼过,那么我,是否还是你认识的我?今生,我们爱了,爱也走了。来生, 你是你,我是我,即使梦中遇见了,笑笑,然后擦肩而过。

爱来过,也走过,痴过也恨过,伤过才会懂,一切皆是错。泪干了,心也平静了,带着微笑再重新来过,人往往活得比男人坚强。 但是再怎么坚强的人,总有寂寞的时侯,终须要一个可以依靠的避风港。残缺的回忆 并没让我放弃追寻, 寻找属于我的那一个人。我始终相信, 该来的总会来, 该走的怎么留也留不住。也许有如句俗语:众里寻它千百度,蓦然回首,那人却在灯火阑珊处。让懂你的人爱你, 重选一份值得坚持的感情,爱只要一点点冲动就可以,了解却少些默契都不行。

距离,让我看到许许多多的美丽。 家,朋友,甚至敌人。以前的执著变成懂得学会如何放手;放心;放开;懂得放手,人生就会有桃花源。不仅如此, 从来不怎么重视家的我如今却是体会到外面的高床软枕,比也比不上家里的狗窝; 外面的鲍参翅燕, 不比妈妈的家常便饭来得香。每每回到家里, 总是有股冲动想要让妈妈抱在怀里安睡的感觉,如果让很认识我的朋友知道我有这股冲动的话, 肯定以为我烧坏了脑或是世界末日即将来临。然而,还是想说这是千真万确的。 看来还真是要感谢自己有离开家的梦, 感谢这份能让我离开家的工作, 感谢上天给机会让我明瞭 这不算太迟才体会的道理, 感谢我的一班‘猪朋狗友’,即使再忙再久失去联络, 却永远记得我的人。

美丽在不同人的心中有着不同的定义, 对我来说,美丽就是当你将最真的自己表现出来, 用真诚的心对待别人, 内在的美自然美丽。再美的人和事物都有老化的一天, 唯有内在不会随着岁月而老去。 美丽和魅力对我的定义就是,当一个男人全心投入工作时的热诚, 或是穿着围裙在厨房准备早餐的背影,最吸引我这种天生浪漫主义者*.*

距离对我来说很近,感觉对你来说很远;两颗在十字路口流连忘返的星星会在某一天相遇吗?


August 10, 2009

My Day in S.P.C.A - Turn Our Words into Action

2009 年8月8日 - 我和Donna其实是从同事发展成为好朋友的, 这也许是因为我们皆是爱狗及动物之人,而Donna也是位合格的狗狗训练员, 所以我们在一起总有共同的话题及兴趣。早在去年开始, 我们已经计划要到防止虐待动物协会去当义工,但由于我们工作上的忙碌以及时间分配不妥当而拖延了好久。直到最近她辞去了工作后终于有机会去做一直很想但没有时间去做的事情, 其中便是在防止虐待动物协会当义工,她主要是在那边给狗儿们一些基本的训练,以提高让人领养的机。槟城地防止虐待动物协会的开放日是星期一至五办公时间,星期六至中午一点钟而已,所以我唯一能去的日子除了星期六,其余的时间我还得上班。

今天我总算做到了,其实还蛮简单的,就是喂食啊,清理粪便,洗澡,以及和狗狗们玩耍,我相信那些家里有养狗儿的人都能够做到。我觉得那就像是和在孤儿院当义工没什么分别,不同的是狗狗不会像小朋友一样问些我们没办法回答的问题,也不会顶嘴和闹脾气,可爱得多。而且对动物有爱心的人真是越来越少啦。 很多人在养宠物前没有考虑清楚地把它们带回家了再以种种理由来抛弃它们,这种不负责任的行为导致许多流浪猫狗越来越多,很多都逼不得已地赐予安乐死。虽然我对动物毛发很敏感,却也阻止不了想要为它们出一分力的热心,它们也像小朋友一样需要一个家,需要爱。相信我,动物其实还比人类更会懂得感恩及忠心,无论你如何对待它,它对主人永远是不离不弃的。 这样试问你还忍心不要它吗? 世间万物皆有灵,皆有性啊!

S.P.C.A -Society for The Prevention Cruelty to Animals
8th August 2009 - Me and Donna's was colleagues years ago but our friendship being built through common interests as we both are animal & dog lovers and became good friends. Donna is also a dog agility and obedient trainer. Ever since last year, we both been thinking to be a volunteer in SPCA but due to the traveling frequency and tight schedule, we don't have a chance to carry our words into action. This is because the SPCA is open during working hours Monday to Firday, half day (till 1pm) for Saturday and close on Sunday. Recently, Donna has resigned from her day job and she finally has more time to fulfilled her desires, one of those is to work in SPCA, not only helping the animals to find homes but also giving some basic obedient training to the dogs so that they're more easily to be adopted by people.

I finally had the chance to carry out my first volunteer work in SPCA on Saturday morning. What we need to do is as just simple as feeding, bathing, cleaning the kennels that those who are keeping pets can do. I feel that working in SPCA making not much difference as you work in an orphanage. Apparently the animals are more adorable and sweet, they don't ask questions that you might not know how to answer, they don't simply grouch and backchat with you. All they want is being loved,cares and a home. People who really cares about animals are decreasing nowadays, most of them never take into consideration whether they are suitable in having a pet before getting them and then abandon them with several excuses afterwards. This irresponsible action lead to the increasing in number of strays and very sad that many of those affected by diseases have to put into sleep. Even though I'm allergic to animal furs, but it never stops me from loving them and contribute whatever within my abilities to them. And trust me, they're very loyal and gratitude to the owner no matter how cruel the owner treated them.


Donna is giving obedient training with Prima & Bonita


Bonita wet herself in her drinking water under hot sun.....hahhahah, she likes to play with water



Three little puppies just came to S.P.C.A............... no name given yet

Myth - 3 years old cocker spaniel abandon by owner ............Zara - a 1 year plus female(adopted dated 12/8/09)


Farold - few months old pup isolated from others as he's on medical treatment, active puppy


Teddy - few months old pup also on medication, a very quiet and good patient boy.

ALWAYS REMEMBER - before getting or adopting a pet, you should ask yourself :-
1. Do I have the time?
2. Do I have the space?
3. Do I have the means? Owning a pet is a life time (depend on the life span of your pet) commitment.

We are glad to announce for dogs adopted from SPCA, they can get :

- discounted dog training session with Penang Dog Agility Association, http://www.agility-penang.com/.

- 50% off on basic and full grooming package for first visit to Doggie Pawlor, http://www.doggiepawlor.com/ (Doggie Pawlor has also pledged 25% of the discounted price to be donated to SPCA.)

For more Information, Kindly proceed to :-

S.P.C.A Penang

Address: Jalan Jeti Jelutong 11600 Penang, Malaysia.

Telephone: (604)2816559 ; Mobile: (6016)4166559