因为陌生,所以勇敢。因为距离,所以美丽


我的处女作。。。认识我的人会很好奇, 什么启发我写Blog?? 而且还是中文版。 他是我高中毕业后就读第一所学院的同学, 读了他的Blog之后, 让我体会到中文是我们的母语, 千万不可以忘记。 也让我明白原来能将我们生活的一点一滴拿出来与认识我们的人分享,尤其如果有朝一日, 我突然失去脑中的记忆,但 至少还有个地方记载我生命中的精彩,其实还不赖。

“陌生”这个词对我来说真的很陌生。。 梦想尤其更是陌生。。 没想过活了二十六年竟然让我踏出勇敢的第一步,迈向我梦寐以求的潜水生涯。 潜水让我克服重重困难,惧高,惧深,惧海。。梦让我学会勇敢, 勇敢的踏出不同的第一步及每一步。 如今的我唯有在那深不见底的海洋, 找到我的灵魂, 找到属于我的梦想; 在那白细的沙滩上, 艳阳光下, 一望无际的碧海蓝天, 找到没有任何烦恼的天堂。Scuba Diving is my soul~ the paradise I can find~ my achievements~ the only dedication in my life~

相信我, 如果你已经克服了你最大的弱点, 那将很难会有什么事情是不能面对, 或者你做不到的, 生命也只不过是如此而已。要记住,别让你的生命里抱着遗憾, 想做就去做。 Live your life with no regrets 。。我的座右铭

勇敢对我来说比死来的简单。我很好奇有些人与其有勇气寻死,却没勇气活下去。要知道有多少在生命边缘挣扎的人,努力呼吸着只为了多活一天。 世间万物的求生毅志怎可以轻易的被挫折打败?上天要我们经过不同的磨练,放才能变得更坚强,变得更能人所不能。 之所以这样我今天还活着,活得好好的,活得比以前更好,而且还要活出灿烂的人生。

距离,让我学会懂得“珍惜”。珍惜生命,珍惜身边的朋友,家人,以及生活中的每一点每一滴。“珍惜”这两个字听起来很简单,但是有多少个人能做得到?过去的爱情让我了解, 男人口中的所谓“珍惜”也只不过是所说说而已。 在面对外界的多种诱惑,难道他真的能珍惜那曾经与他们共同进退,背后默默为他们撑着的人吗?他怎可能记得说过永远的爱我? 守候的结果,换来的却是无情的背叛。 无须苦苦强求,唯有带着破碎的心情离开。以前的那一句话已是我心中的伤口, 过了好久好久没人记得当初的那些温柔, 我和你手牵手说要一起走到最后。如果爱不曾来过,如果梦不曾碎过,如果心不曾疼过,那么我,是否还是你认识的我?今生,我们爱了,爱也走了。来生, 你是你,我是我,即使梦中遇见了,笑笑,然后擦肩而过。

爱来过,也走过,痴过也恨过,伤过才会懂,一切皆是错。泪干了,心也平静了,带着微笑再重新来过,人往往活得比男人坚强。 但是再怎么坚强的人,总有寂寞的时侯,终须要一个可以依靠的避风港。残缺的回忆 并没让我放弃追寻, 寻找属于我的那一个人。我始终相信, 该来的总会来, 该走的怎么留也留不住。也许有如句俗语:众里寻它千百度,蓦然回首,那人却在灯火阑珊处。让懂你的人爱你, 重选一份值得坚持的感情,爱只要一点点冲动就可以,了解却少些默契都不行。

距离,让我看到许许多多的美丽。 家,朋友,甚至敌人。以前的执著变成懂得学会如何放手;放心;放开;懂得放手,人生就会有桃花源。不仅如此, 从来不怎么重视家的我如今却是体会到外面的高床软枕,比也比不上家里的狗窝; 外面的鲍参翅燕, 不比妈妈的家常便饭来得香。每每回到家里, 总是有股冲动想要让妈妈抱在怀里安睡的感觉,如果让很认识我的朋友知道我有这股冲动的话, 肯定以为我烧坏了脑或是世界末日即将来临。然而,还是想说这是千真万确的。 看来还真是要感谢自己有离开家的梦, 感谢这份能让我离开家的工作, 感谢上天给机会让我明瞭 这不算太迟才体会的道理, 感谢我的一班‘猪朋狗友’,即使再忙再久失去联络, 却永远记得我的人。

美丽在不同人的心中有着不同的定义, 对我来说,美丽就是当你将最真的自己表现出来, 用真诚的心对待别人, 内在的美自然美丽。再美的人和事物都有老化的一天, 唯有内在不会随着岁月而老去。 美丽和魅力对我的定义就是,当一个男人全心投入工作时的热诚, 或是穿着围裙在厨房准备早餐的背影,最吸引我这种天生浪漫主义者*.*

距离对我来说很近,感觉对你来说很远;两颗在十字路口流连忘返的星星会在某一天相遇吗?


July 27, 2009

我的潜水录 II - Refreshment Dives

海鲜晚餐 (团体照) 登嘉楼唐人街


2008年四月 - 因为工作的关系,从考到潜水执照的这一年里我根本没办法参与任何一个潜水活动,直到我的潜水伙伴们通知我说他们已经参加了五月的热浪岛潜水时,已经太迟了因为每一个活动都有限制参加人数。虽然我好想去(很难得能碰到我们4个能一起潜水 - 我,Toon, Henzing 和在上海工作的Willoon)但也只好和另一个朋友Adelena报名四月的热浪岛潜水。

April 2008 - Ever since i got the Open Water Diver license, this is the first trip i can participate besides the practical test in Perhentian Island which was like a year ago. It was too late when my buddies informed me about their participation in May Redang trip as it's already fulled though i really wish to go (hardly 4 of us can go diving together - me, Toon, Henzing and Willoon that based in ShangHai). I therefore joined the April trip with a friend Adelena, we knew each other during open water.

Pool side view in the morning

Sutra Beach Resort - Kuala Terengganu

整个团里, 除了我,Adelena 和教练, 其他的都是外籍潜水员。就因为如此我和 Adelena驾了大约八个小时的车程抵达登嘉楼后,幸运的入住比较不错的酒店 Sutra Beach Resort. 如果时间允许的话,我还真的想去享受一下游泳和在泳池边休息聊天。 可惜当我们抵达那里时已经是黄昏,晚餐后就各自回房休息了,因为明天一早还要启程到船头前往热浪岛潜水去。

This is not considered as big group with total of 7 divers (included my dive instructor) and besides 3 of us, the rest are all westerners from different countries. After 8 hours drive from Penang Island early morning, we arrived at Sutra Beach Resort in the evening, went for seafood dinner in Terengganu China Town after resting a while. It was a bit late after get back from dinner so that's why we do not have the chance to enjoy swim in the pool. How i wish to relax by the pool side and having some beers. Well, we gotto rest for early departure next morning to jetty to catch the boat to Redang Islang.

Briefing by Mr. Fong - Our dive instructor 要下水啦,好紧张 - gearing up


Preparing to enter ...................................... Gather at the surface before descending

前往热浪岛途中,我们将在Baby West Rock的潜点做第一个check out dive. 刚下水的十五分钟我还是在忙着调整浮力, 毕竟已经一年没潜水了, 还好并不是很难掌握。 这一个潜点底下大部分是沙床,主要也是方便当我们不平衡失去控制时不会撞向或踩到珊瑚。当我们准备好后便继续往前游,终于开始体会到一点享受潜水的快感,比起之前考试时当然有所不同。没了压力自然就轻松些,开心些,看到的海底生物也格外美丽。

On our way to Redang Island, we did our check out dive at Baby West Rock. For the first 15mins i was busy adjusting my buoyancy control and luckily it's sands bed at the bottom so that we won't be banging or stepping on live corals when we're out of control. It's been a year ago since my open water test, and I'm glad it did'nt take me too long to settle down. As we swam forward, i'm getting more and more enjoying diving in the sea, looking for marine lifes that i ever seen before, it was so much different compared to the previous trip.


Jelly fish ........................ Old couple and Adelena on top deflating air from BC


It's me!!!!! ...............................................soft corals

这个潜大约用了三十六分钟,随后便在热浪岛吃午餐。我们入住的度假屋可说是我有史以来住过最残旧的度假屋之一,设备也普普通通,只有冷气睡房和小餐厅,不过还好有热水器可以冲凉。接下来我们便出发到Terumbu Kili 和 Pulau Pinang Wreck 潜点继续潜水。这也是我第一次经历到海底水流,虽然并不是很强烈但也足以让我们游得上气不接下气,我终于明白是时候该换一对好的脚蹼了。

This dive last about 36 minutes, then we approached to Redang Island for lunch break and check in to Mutiara Beach resort which is a lousiest resort i ever stayed in. The facilities are just air-conditioning room, hot shower and a cafeteria. After lunch, we went to Terumbu Kili and Pulau Pinang Wreck for diving. This is also the first time i encountered slow current that was exhausting enough for us to fight through it. I finally realised it's time to change an expensive and good fin - Bio Fin.


Giant Puffer .....................................School of Fish


Schhool of Fish .............................Me and Adelena on the surface


Snap shot from the boat - table corals......................... New Jetty Link to Private Beach



Me and Adelena (Check out the resort behind us) ............Me and Adelena evening shot at the jetty

接下来的两天,我们分别在Pulau Ling, Bidong Wreck, Downtown, 和 Batu Cupak 潜水。 我们也见到了小魔鬼鱼,海龟, 鳗鱼, 和小鲨鱼。由于其中一个潜水时我不小心弄伤了耳膜,所以没办法做最后一个潜,只好留在船上等队员回来。最令人气愤的是他们遇见了罕见的 Hammer head Parrot Fish,气死我了。晚上我们的晚餐是自助烧烤,玩得还蛮尽兴的。

We were doing diving at Pulau Ling, Bidong Wreck, Downtown, and Batu Cupak for the next 2 days. During the dives, we saw few different marine lifes such as stingrays, moray eels, black tip baby shark, turtle, school barracudas and many more as pictures shown below. Due to the inproper equilization, i have to missed one of the dives and resting on the boat while waiting for the rest to come back from diving. The sad part is the group saw Hammer head parrot fish during the dive that i missed and this is rare to sight in East Coast dive sites. We were having BBQ dinner at night and generally it was quiet happy.



Types of Corals ...................................... Spagetti Worm



Rocks & Hard Corals ...................................Giant Clam


Soft Corals
..........................................Hammer Head Parrot Fish



Christmas Tree Worm ....................................................Soft Corals



BBQ Dinner
............................... Light & Easy Night


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